When life gets busy, something has to give. These days, it’s my personal blog, but I love to have it to look back on, document my life and keep my little part of the internet.
I turned 35 in November. I’m enjoying my 30s, and appreciate the chance to get another year on this planet. Better late than never, here goes a list of the things that happened at 34 that I’d like to remember:
1. I became a mama. Being a mama is pretty amazing. You get to run with glee towards a fire engine at a kid’s party and people just think you’re being a great mom. Ha! Impending motherhood also gave me a kick to start things going on other dreams I had before I got sucked into a vortex.
2. Case in point: I became an official small business owner with my design partner-in-crime, Ann. We started Design Move Toss, LLC, which is a virtual and in-home interior design consulting gig. The goal is to have it be a fun and creative outlet where we can help people, make some extra money, and let it grow responsibly and organically. I’ll probably talk about it more, and we’re in the process of getting our logo / collateral redesigned soon! However, it was great to get started and not worry about making everything perfect in the beginning. Anyone else have a tendency to suffer from perfectionism paralysis?! Oy.
3. I really made a go of my Etsy shop selling watercolors and custom home portraits, and was pleasantly surprised to exceed my expectations in sales! I want to explore some paper collage and larger scale paintings this year, but we shall see. (Again, that limited free time and day-job thing).
4. I went out of my comfort zone a few times, and as usual, was glad I did it!
5. I said “no” when needed, to make sure I wasn’t spreading myself too thin, so that I can be there for my family.
6. I tried to stay present in the moments and enjoy my new baby, and was “gentle” with myself, per the wise advice of Leya (Curious Bird).
7. I read some books for fun. I laughed with friends. I watched more TV than one should, and tried not to feel too guilty. I ate lots of chocolate muffins in the afternoons with a side of coffee.
8. I got to spend lots of time with our family and friends, which is the most important thing to Mike and me. Having Henry as initiative for people to visit really helped! My heart bursts when I see how much he is loved by my amazing relatives.
9. We got to go to NYC, Washington D.C., Indiana and Florida. Not too bad for year one. (We also all got severely sick in NYC with our Indiana relatives, but have many stories to laugh about now).